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Kdy\u017e je v\u00e1m naprosto jedno, jak a s k\u00fdm partner tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt […]","datePublished":"2025-03-02","dateModified":"2025-03-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/091b4d684e9af597ec9885a078917281e353fb1084ff05c94355123dbb14e899?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/091b4d684e9af597ec9885a078917281e353fb1084ff05c94355123dbb14e899?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"peachpit.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295832_w2123_t1507271367.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a295832_w2123_t1507271367.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/jste-zarliva-pozor-na-to\/","wordCount":484,"articleBody":"Jak to m\u00e1te s \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed vy? V p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e je roztomil\u00e1. V\u017edy ale z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na okolnostech. Takov\u00fd typ \u017e\u00e1rlivosti v\u00e1s mnohdy m\u016f\u017ee i rozesm\u00e1t. Partnerovi p\u0159ijde vtipn\u00e9, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1rl\u00edte a z\u00e1rove\u0148 ho to pot\u011b\u0161\u00ed, proto\u017ee mal\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1rlivost je takov\u00fdm d\u016fkazem l\u00e1sky. Kdy\u017e je v\u00e1m naprosto jedno, jak a s k\u00fdm partner tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das, m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt potom pocit, \u017ee je v\u00e1m naprosto lhostejn\u00fd, a \u017ee v\u00e1s absolutn\u011b nezaj\u00edm\u00e1. Dejte si ale velk\u00fd pozor. Hranice mezi snesitelnou a nesnesitelnou \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed je velice tenk\u00e1. A \u017eensk\u00e1 mysl je velice kreativn\u00ed a dok\u00e1\u017ee vymyslet r\u016fzn\u00e9 sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e. Fantazie toti\u017e v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b pracuje na pln\u00e9 obr\u00e1tky.,,Zase mu zvon\u00ed telefon, kdo mu po\u0159\u00e1d p\u00ed\u0161e? Kdo mu zase vol\u00e1? Pro\u010d se sm\u011bje na tu prodava\u010dku? Ur\u010dit\u011b s n\u00ed n\u011bco m\u00e1 nebo se mu l\u00edb\u00ed! Kde je tak dlouho? U\u017e m\u00e1 10 minut zpo\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed!\u201c Doprov\u00e1z\u00ed v\u00e1\u0161 vztah podobn\u00e9 v\u011bty? Pak u\u017e m\u00e1te probl\u00e9m, i kdy\u017e si to mo\u017en\u00e1 nechcete p\u0159iznat. Pokud v\u00e1s napadaj\u00ed takov\u00e9 a podobn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, je nutn\u00e9 s t\u00edm n\u011bco ud\u011blat. Jinak utr\u00e1p\u00edte nejen sv\u00e9ho partnera, ale hlavn\u011b sebe. Bude v\u00e1s to u\u017e\u00edrat zevnit\u0159 a n\u00e1lady v\u00e1m to moc nep\u0159id\u00e1. Jak to ale \u0159e\u0161it? V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b je pot\u0159eba si uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee m\u00e1te probl\u00e9m a p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let, z jak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu vznikl. Byl v\u00e1m partner n\u011bkdy nev\u011brn\u00fd? Nem\u00e1 na v\u00e1s \u010das? Tr\u00e1v\u00ed p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho \u010dasu mimo domov? Nebo pro\u010d jste za\u010dala \u017e\u00e1rlit? Ut\u0159i\u010fte si my\u0161lenky. Potom v\u00e1s \u010dek\u00e1 asi to nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. \u0158ekn\u011bte to partnerovi. Promluvte si s n\u00edm o v\u0161em. Narovinu a popravd\u011b se mu sv\u011b\u0159te, co v\u00e1s tr\u00e1p\u00ed, a co je p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou toho tr\u00e1pen\u00ed a uvid\u00edte, jak se k tomu postav\u00ed. Pokud v\u00e1s doopravdy miluje, budete hledat spole\u010dn\u00e9 \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, jak se probl\u00e9mu zbavit, jak budovat d\u016fv\u011bru mezi v\u00e1mi, nebo jak v\u00e1m zv\u00fd\u0161it sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, abyste nem\u011bla pot\u0159ebu \u017e\u00e1rlit. Co byste ale ur\u010dit\u011b nem\u011bla d\u011blat? V \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b mu nelezte do telefonu, nekontrolujte po\u010d\u00edta\u010d (e-mail, Facebook) a neprohled\u00e1vejte oble\u010den\u00ed. T\u00edm se toti\u017e maxim\u00e1ln\u011b shod\u00edte a va\u0161e sv\u011bdom\u00ed v\u00e1s bude t\u00ed\u017eit vinou. Partner se na v\u00e1s bude tak\u00e9 d\u00edvat \u00fapln\u011b jin\u00fdma o\u010dima. Dejte si pozor, a\u0165 ho p\u0159\u00edli\u0161nou \u017e\u00e1rlivost\u00ed nep\u0159im\u011bjete k opravdov\u00e9 nev\u011b\u0159e, kter\u00fd nyn\u00ed pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b nen\u00ed, a kv\u016fli kter\u00e9 t\u0159eba zbyte\u010dn\u011b \u017e\u00e1rl\u00edte.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jste \u017e\u00e1rliv\u00e1? Pozor na to!","item":"https:\/\/www.peachpit.cz\/jste-zarliva-pozor-na-to\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]